Hey Wed,
Wonder if you can stop by my thread and give some advice. I like hearing from you, as you are a success story. My H has come and gone a number of times swearing it was over with OW. Like you, when I would discover contact with OW, I would tell ihm he needs to go. I move on. He disappears for a few days. Then starts creeping back in. In the past, after a few days of going dark, I would let ihm back in. This tiem, we've been "separated" since TGiving. But after about a week, he started calling, initiatig plans to do thigns as a family, coming to church, etc... That's been goign on for a few weeks. So, I feel him getting closer and closer, yet we've had no conversation of him saying all the things he has said in the past. Anyway, I appreciate your insight!