My H and I have been separated off/on for past 2 years. I've come to realize that he is in MLC. My H and OW were together about 10 months and have been apart for nearly a year. There were other women, I believe 2 and I guess they were just "emply relationships."
H and I have talked about divorce so many times and have actually filed but failed to follow through so it was dismissed. H is now living with a mutual friend of ours.
H has begun counseling and I have noticed a little change. Last week we had lunch together (the first one in 1.5 years!). H opened up to me and showed me emotions. H said he would like to work on us but it would be a slow process.
My H told me that every time he would feel himself getting closer to me he would get scared and run off. Is this a normal behavior in an MLCer?
M:43 H:37 D14 (ours) D18 (mine) S22 (mine) S18 (his) S: 10/2004 Bomb: 2/15/05 In/out of home Living with OW #4 Talks of D for 2-1/2 years
