I will read your threads and post there when I can. My home computer is broken, have to order part, so it may be out for a week. I can only post at work.
But it sounds like you all are doing great in dealing with MLC. The tunnel is very long and each spot seems to need a little different approach to make it through.
Just remember patience. I used to look for progress in every comment, every action, every day. Now I know that it takes looking back 6 months at a time to see the changes/progress. SSLLLOOOWWWW does not even begin to describe it.
Elliecat, my H and I discussed D many times, the last time he even had the papers and was one day from filing before he realized that wasn't what he wanted!!
So many similarities among MLCers!!
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wed2alien
Both 49, M 23 years 3 teens April 2004- bomb, moved out April 2006-Ended with OW for the LAST time May 2006- He wants to work on the marriage!! Nov 2006-- Moved home May 2008- Things still getting better
