wed2 I read your post with interest. I don't know if you are familiar with my thread but h suddenly did a u turn and didn't want a divorce or to lose me from his life. We have a cottage next door and he is currently living there so he isn't completely back home yet. We spend a lot of time together, talk on the phone etc but he is emotionally still very detached. Your comments on very slow progress hit home to me too. He is always pleased to see me and spend time etc but anything vaguely intimate is a definite "no no". Sometimes I feel so rejected but I have to remind myself that 4 weeks ago we were on the verge of divorce. He admits to being in a very comfortable place and doesn't want to move from it. I guess I just have to be patient.
