MLC over??

[a new 2moro]

That is truely wonderful that your H has come home. My H is still in the affair , still in replay and I am faced with having to file for D to save me financially.....after wanting so desperately to stand for my M. He wants me to get a job to help pay the bills while there is still a 3rd person in our marriage. I told him just yesterday, I would if he got rid of the 3rd person in our marriage. He cant afford 2 places because I kicked him out....I reminded him I did that because he brought that 3rd person into the marriage...his choice.....so what do i do? I did so NOT want a D. This is coming down to an ultimatum which is not healthy for the MLCer who is still deep in replay. He was in counseling but stopped....no $$ he said. I told him less $$ on OW and he could afford it. Replay has gone on for 9 months so I am a year plus behind everyone.....maybe 2