I just thought of something else that shows that these MLCers are in some kind of time warp or something.

Tonight my H was looking for something of his that had sat in the same place on this desk in our dining room. It was a special bottle of whisky in a gift box that someone gave him for Christmas 1-2 yrs ago.

Well tonight he wanted to drink it for his sore throat and couldn't find it, so of course he accused me of moving it, kept calling me at work and asking where it might be, why did I move it, etc. (even though he is coming out of the fog, a lot of things are still my fault!!)

I reminded him that he has moved out and moved back to our house at least 4 times in the past 2 yrs and maybe HE could have taken it with him to one of his apartments he has lived in.

Well low and behold, he calls me about 15 minutes later and he had found it in one of his boxes from his apt that is still on our screened porch since he moved home!! ( I refuse to unpack him again!!)

Anyway, it was like the past 2.5 yrs never happened, that he never left home, that that whisky should be where he put it last year!!

He had done or said other things that make it sound like he just totally missed the past 2.5 yrs. That fog is REALLY thick!!

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Both 49, M 23 years
3 teens
April 2004- bomb, moved out
April 2006-Ended with OW for the LAST time
May 2006- He wants to work on the marriage!!
Nov 2006-- Moved home
May 2008- Things still getting better