Congratulations Wed2, it sounds like you are on the right track.
I don't know if you remember me, you posted to me a couple of times, and really helped me out. I haven't posted much lately. My H ended his A with the OW about a month ago, but still can't commit to working on our M. Things are much better than they were, but he is still in the fog. He admits to it though, and is trying to get help.
What you said about your H being worried about hurting the OW's feelings really hit home with me. My H still seems to have more loyalty to her than to me. No united front on this end. She is still unaware that I was in the picture for the last ten months, doesn't want to hurt her.
They are over, he has started a new job and no longer works with her, but I still feel like the possibility of him going back to her is still being held above my head, just to keep me in line.
I would appreciate any advice you can give me. I know patience is key.
