Got a text from WAH last night. He asked how my Thanksgiving was. I was actually taking a long bubble bath and didn't get the text for awhile. He sent another one asking where I was. I am very familiar with the pattern now. I said home. He said im coming over.
He got here and said that his mom is in town and she said he needed to go and talk to his wife. Good old mom. It was the same thing, he wanted to sleep with me and I said that right now I couldn't. That we needed to be on the road to recovery. He said he wanted it, but did the whole im not sure, we have to take it slow, we still have 4 months until D is final, etc. What is the holdup?
So he ended up staying till the middle of the night, just hanging out and talking. It was so nice. I can wait, but I am just so afraid that at the end of it he will say no and I have lost all of these months and time trying to rebuild my life. His idea of taking it slow is just talking and seeing eachother once in awhile. How do you put the past behind you that way? He said he would call later today and asked if I wanted to do something tonight. I said yes, but typically he runs about this point so I am not getting too excited.
Any thoughts?
Me: 41
WAH: 32
Married 11 months
5 kids between us
WAH left: 7/1/06
http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Board=UBB40&Number=1279331&fpart=&PHPSESSID=
WAH filed: 8/31/06
