Well, my WAH is not her dad, he is her stepdad. She has a dad she is close to. I don't have an issue with them spending time together, but it turns into a pump for information session, lies and false hope. If it were time that he spent honestly I dont care. But he asks questions about what I am doing and feeling, tells her that I am the one who wants the D and that I am not willing to make changes. He will also tell her that he stopped the D when he hasn't, still loves and misses me and wants to come home. So she comes back and is either elated for no reason and gets her bubble burst or she is devastated. I DO have a problem with that!!
Me: 41
WAH: 32
Married 11 months
5 kids between us
WAH left: 7/1/06
http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Board=UBB40&Number=1279331&fpart=&PHPSESSID=
WAH filed: 8/31/06
