I know it is hard on the kids. My d14 has taken it the hardest. She is one angry kid. I have her in C, but she wears a mask in front of the C. Acts like everything is fine, but I know better. My H also doesn't want me spending anytime with his kids ( my stepkids). My kids grew up with H's kids and now they don't see each other. Whenever I suggest that the kids get together H finds an excuse. He says he doesn't have a problem with the kids staying in contact with one another , but he isn't encouraging it either. H wants all ties cut , I 'm not really sure why.
Why do they have to be so immature? Is H worried that my kids may tell his kids things that he doesn't want them to know? Not sure....