Oh, I had a really bad night. This is affecting my kids so much. I have a 15 year old daughter that is quite headstrong. As well as her dad and I do coparenting, I am generally the one who talks with teachers, puts restrictions down, the one that always "finds out" what she is doing. I tell her dad and he comes down on her, but she resents me alot. This separation from WAH (her stepdad and buddy) has been hard on her. Yesterday he contacted all 3 of my kids. Two didn't answer him and my 15D decides she wants to have lunch with him. I don't understand why she feels this loyalty. He contacts them just to play games. I am not allowed or encouraged to spend time with his kids. So, last night she asked me if she can have lunch with him today. I calmly said I didn't think that was a good idea. Well, WWIII broke out. We ended up in the biggest fight, yelling, screaming, she threw the phone and wanted to live with her dad, etc. She hated me. She went completely over the edge. Her and I have butted heads on alot of stuff, but she is one angry kid.

I need some help here. Please. I am devastated.

Me: 41 WAH: 32 Married 11 months 5 kids between us WAH left: 7/1/06 http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Board=UBB40&Number=1279331&fpart=&PHPSESSID= WAH filed: 8/31/06