Long night. I didn't sleep well. I have no idea why I get so let down when WAH does these things. I can see it and know its coming. Its my own fault for letting him get back with me with no commitment. I have never dealt with anyone that is so downright cruel before in my life.

I got a call from my 1st ex H (my kids father). We are good friends and he has been very supportive thru this whole mess with WAH. He told me that our oldest (17) has told him about WAH coming and going, making promises to me and the kids, showing up drunk, and then bailing. I guess its really getting to her. Anyway, he said he didn't want that around the kids anymore. I don't blame him. WAH is not just messing with me, he is dragging the kids down too. my 1st ex said he told our kids that if WAH calls or contacts them, they are to say their dad does not want them talking because of the way WAH has treated me and them. I can't argue, its true. I have tried to tell WAH not to mess with my kids, but he knows they are a good ego boost and he can get info from them.

Should I move my post? I am not piecing anymore, I am trying to survive.

Me: 41 WAH: 32 Married 11 months 5 kids between us WAH left: 7/1/06 http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Board=UBB40&Number=1279331&fpart=&PHPSESSID= WAH filed: 8/31/06