You & I are in similar sitiuation. Glad you took Michelle's advice from the book (like I did) & had sex.
The problem is that you & I are on a different level all together than our WAHs. They are still confused with ALOT of their internal issues (demons) that no matter how much we want to help, cant. This is our LIMBO LAND and it is so very roller coaster - speed bumpy from day to day.
AAARRGGHHH, I absolutely hate it @ the same time being at piece w/it.
Next time your H says he doesn't want to dive back in, say you understand that he might feel things are going too fast & things are messing up, but that is not what you feel.
Gently suggest that you are okay with taking things at a slower pace.
You are sooo lucky that he said ILU AND not giving up.
Consider talking w/him later, but only if he initiates the meeting. I would not bring it up, becuase it could be thought of as pursuing.
My WAH-MLCer & I had our first sexual encounter about 2 weeks ago, then he went wiggy. Since then we have had 3 more encounters w/similar results.
Hold on for dear life, keep DBing, GALing & I will pray for both of us.
MariS
"Going for the Gold & not the Booby prize"
Become the change you want to see.....
Me - 37 WAH - 35 child - 2yrs Separated - August '06 Married - 10yrs, Together 18 Not feeling WAH's internal struggle - Feb '08
