Last night i sent H a text saying he had some mail here. He sent one saying that I could drop it by his house or I can leave it out today and he will get it. Sort of a blow off. I didn't respond. He started sending more and more texts. It was late and I thought it was a good time to DB. I didn't answer calls or texts. Finally I answered. He was upset and thought I wasn't home and with someone else. We ended up spending the night together. Great night. I love you, I want this....all the usual. Only him, he makes me promise him that!!
He leaves this morning and then sends a text about an hour later. "We can't do this anymore. It just messes things up..." basically flopped back to where we were with him running like hell.
Our texts go back and forth this morning. He says he loves me but isn't ready to go diving back in. What the heck does that mean? Why does he do this? He is freaked that he can't find me, loves me, wants us and then turns and does this once again. He says he is not giving up on us but now is not the time. So when is it the time?
What am I supposed to do? Wait. Keep trying? Move on? Everytime I start to move on, he comes running back, but only for a short time. Seriously, this happens all the time and 3 times in the past 5 days.
His last text said that He cant go diving back in, but he does love me. He said he would be around later if I want to talk.
Waht do I dooooooo?????Help Help Help
Me: 41
WAH: 32
Married 11 months
5 kids between us
WAH left: 7/1/06
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WAH filed: 8/31/06
