Right now, you can't win....WAS is battling his own demons & you can not help him with those. All you can you is take it one hour @ a time, one morning/afternoon/evening, etc.
Maybe the next time H blows up about you not communicating, you just say, "I am sorry you feel that way" & nothing else. This will let him know that you heard him & ackowledged his feelings. DO NOT let him attempt to draw you into an arguement, remain polite & sweet while trying to keep the conversation brief.
MariS
"Going for the Gold & not the Booby prize"
Become the change you want to see.....
Me - 37 WAH - 35 child - 2yrs Separated - August '06 Married - 10yrs, Together 18 Not feeling WAH's internal struggle - Feb '08
