Welcome to "Piecing." Like you, I wasn't sure if this is where I needed to be or not. Mainly, because WAH-MLCer has not moved back home or said that he is willing to work on the M.
My WAH-MLCer flip flops too. Since he doesn't actually say that he is working on us, I pay attention to his actions, which I firmly believe he is testing, instead of reconciling.
Everyone tells me this is normal & typical roller coaster ride with the speed bumps. The hardest part is not to create the speed bumps & to keep the "As If", GALing & 180 going.
Personally, I had areal doozy of a ride this weekend & so glad its Monday.
Sending you a big hug!
MariS
"Going for the Gold & not the Booby prize"
Become the change you want to see.....
Me - 37 WAH - 35 child - 2yrs Separated - August '06 Married - 10yrs, Together 18 Not feeling WAH's internal struggle - Feb '08
The hardest part is not to create the speed bumps & to keep the "As If", GALing & 180 going.