I have been in separated and Surviving but some think I should be here...I am not sure. I linked (I think) my thread at the bottom so you can catch up.

Basically my WAH flip flops. Somedays he wants to work this out, and others he doesn't. He is very insecure and jealous but will not make the official move to reconcile. Typically what happens is we spend some time together and then he disappears for a few days/week.

For instance we spent some time together last night. If I initiate, he runs so I wait for him. When we have spent some time together and he gets his ego boost he leaves and poof hes gone. I sent a text today asking how he was....no reply.

Anyways, any help is appreciated. Please read my sitch if you all get a chance and I am happy to get to know you all. I will start reading all of yours.

Me: 41 WAH: 32 Married 11 months 5 kids between us WAH left: 7/1/06 http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Board=UBB40&Number=1279331&fpart=&PHPSESSID= WAH filed: 8/31/06