As I've said before, we HAVE busted the divorce, now we are just trying to salvage the marriage, and it seems to be all about communication. It's a hard road....
Z, any wise words you may have to guide the rest of the herd on the journey, we are all ears... (striped ... of course!)
Communication (in the realm of sharing about ourselves) ... still the biggest hurdle that is keeping my W & me from getting closer....