Funny you should post... I'm writing this while taking a break from catching up on your thread....
I'm doing really well... So is W!!!
As I've said before, we HAVE busted the divorce, now we are just trying to salvage the marriage, and it seems to be all about communication. It's a hard road. I see you going through stuff I went through. I see you doing well, making mistakes, learning. I can't really advise, but I follow your story and I comment when I think I can help. You are a smart lady, LL. You can win this. Just don't try to hard to WIN.