I'm always so glad to see you post! Thank you so much for all of your wonderful, insightful advice and for your constant encouragement and faith in me that I will win at this. I'm not as confident about that sometimes but it always gives a boost when someone else tells me I'm doing okay.
I'm so glad to hear that things are moving forward positively for you albeit slowly. It is still progress! I think your right that the marrigebuilders site is good once the divorce is busted. I actually ordered the Love Busters book and His Needs Her Needs book and workbook a while back, but have yet to delve into them. Of course it would be great if H would participate but he just doesn't get into that type of thing. I'll have to check out the Surviving an Affair. Like I said on my thread, I shyed away from Harley a bit after holding on too tightly to his idea that no contact should continue between the spouse and OP. But now I have all this wonderful knowledge from Michelle's book and BB that I think I can overlook that. You and I both know this doesn't or can't always apply. Or that's it just not that cut and dry.
Please keep giving a quick update every so often when you get the chance. Your doing so great!!
