It's going along quite well. Still slowly, but in a positive direction. I've been reading a lot of stuff by Willard Harley lately (marriagebuilders.com). I mean no disrespect to Michele by mentioning that site here. I truly owe her a debt I can never repay for her making this site available. But, this site is Divorce Busting. I think I've succeeded in that. Harley's site is "marriagebuilders", and that's something I never really worked hard at, and why I arrived here. I think many of us here in "Piecing..." could use some of the techniques Harley espouses to. I'm sure learning a lot, and W is responding positively, and it fits with C's work. Harley is a bit hardnosed, but there is much wisdom in what he says. I don't participate in the boards there, I just read.
I'm currently reading Harley's book "Surviving an Affair", as the suggestion of our C. It's eye-opening. I hope I can get W to read it. I believe her biggest objection would be that her job requires a lot of reading, so reading of this sort is a real P.I.T.A. But I hope she will. I read a lot of stuff on his web site, but this is clearer.
Best wishes to you, t. Best wishes to everyone here.
