Although we've never communicated, Zebra, I have to say I find comfort in much of what you've written in your posts. After just finding out about my W having an A, we are on the road to recovery with her proclaimation to really work on the M. She basically said almost verbatim what you previously posted: "She did her best to assure me that she's back, and she's working on us, and on her issues with intimacy with us."

So many interesting insights here. Your legacy has offered me hope.

bellis