Zebra, good luck in your new adventures. You have pulled me up when I just needed to hear something positive. I will miss your kindness, but surely understand what you need to do right now. I agree about finding this board, I really don't know what I would have done. There is a reason for everything. My best to you and your family on your FIL coming to live with you. We had to put my Dad in a home a few years ago, one of the hardest things I have ever had to do, embrace the time you all have. Life, as we know, is precious. Sue