The fat lady is warming up....

[I_Wanna_Make_It_Work]

OK - OF. I think your post does explain alot. Most of your points, I agree with. They are "personal" things your W has to fix. I just fear you'll be too focused on getting the items in your list taken care of, that you might miss an opportunity - a work-around, if you will - that would still bring you to the same end. Leaing the door cracked is good - as long as she knows what your expectations are and it's not just trial and error for her at this point. I'm guessing your prerequisites are discussed in MC.