Thanks everyone for your kind words of support. I'm feeling like I'm breaking new ground, but I'm feeling that I'm doing what's right, what's just.
I'll let you know how it all works out, but it seems to be working out for now.... I just never planned on being in such romantic limbo in my mid forties, I don't know where this is going, of if my marriage will survive. I do know that whatever happens from here on out, it will be by agreement, rather than by reactionary edict. In that regard, I've won.
I've said, or at least eluded to it, before, that I've "busted" the divorce. Now, I'm trying to save the marriage. These are two very big, very different steps. I'm learning that now.
