Hey OldFool,

See, that's why I seek your advice. You see things so much more clearer than me.

And yes, I think I did temporarily lose my mind . I just can't get over the fact that the man I loved and trusted with my life left. I tend to confuse my WAH with the man I lived with for 12 years. You see, I could reason with him, but this person that he has become is so different, so selfish, so unlike him. I can't reason with him, and I hate it .

Anyway, I've decided to retain the lawyer I spoke with on Wednesday.

I really appreciate you taking the time to write back. I know you have your own issues to deal with, so I really appreciate it .

All my best,
alamogirl


Me - 48 (at time of 1st bomb)
H - 43
married - 16 Jul 94
no children
1st bomb - (said he was leaving) - 3 Jun 06
2nd bomb (said he was ready to file) - 10 Nov 06
H filed divorce - 17 Nov 06
Divorce finalized - 20 Jul 07