See, that's why I seek your advice. You see things so much more clearer than me.
And yes, I think I did temporarily lose my mind . I just can't get over the fact that the man I loved and trusted with my life left. I tend to confuse my WAH with the man I lived with for 12 years. You see, I could reason with him, but this person that he has become is so different, so selfish, so unlike him. I can't reason with him, and I hate it .
Anyway, I've decided to retain the lawyer I spoke with on Wednesday.
I really appreciate you taking the time to write back. I know you have your own issues to deal with, so I really appreciate it .
All my best, alamogirl
Me - 48 (at time of 1st bomb) H - 43 married - 16 Jul 94 no children 1st bomb - (said he was leaving) - 3 Jun 06 2nd bomb (said he was ready to file) - 10 Nov 06 H filed divorce - 17 Nov 06 Divorce finalized - 20 Jul 07