What do you make of this? Remember I told you that I had not heard from my H, well, last Sat, 30 Dec 06, I was on the phone with my sis when I heard my phone click but I didn't answer. After I was able to check who called, it was my H. He left the weirdest message. He said, "Hi, I had a dream about you last night that you called. I know that's not going to happen." His voice sounded quivery . I'm thinking, "WHAT WAS THAT ABOUT?"
When I got home, I called him back. I asked him why he left that message, and his response was that because he hadn't heard from me in a while. I told him, "The last time we spoke, you had some thinking to do." When I asked him why he didn't acknowledge my letter, he said that I didn't ask him to...DUH! Then he said that I sounded demanding in that letter. He was shopping at Lowes, so he said that he would call me back later. Well, he didn't. I was hoping to discuss our situation further.
I spent NYE at my sis house, and I thought that maybe, just maybe, he would call after midnight...nada . I got home around 2:00 am, and there were no messages on my voice mail. He's working for this guy right now while he's on break from school. He's going to be out of town until Friday.
Since then, I've really been PO'd! Now, he's toying with my emotions. How dare he tell me that he's going to call, and he doesn't! At first, I didn't think he had someone else, but I think he does now. What a way to start a relationship.
I went to see a lawyer today. He sounds like a barracuda. Damn, these things are expensive. His retainer is $2K.
How are things going with you?
All my best, alamogirl
Me - 48 (at time of 1st bomb) H - 43 married - 16 Jul 94 no children 1st bomb - (said he was leaving) - 3 Jun 06 2nd bomb (said he was ready to file) - 10 Nov 06 H filed divorce - 17 Nov 06 Divorce finalized - 20 Jul 07