Z, Just finished reading this thread (well, most of it...I am supposed to be working!)
Back in September, you expressed the thoughts that are bugging me right now. Trying to forgive; knowing that the OM contact should be broken off, but not wanting to appear controlling; wondering why her circle of friends don't see what she's doing; how she probably feels that you were the one who needed to accept her continued contact with OM as a sign of trust.
What a story, Z! It sure sounds like all of your efforts are paying off. Keep up the good work!
