I understand you have your own situation to tend to. I'm patient .
Gosh, I don't understand your wife. Why leave a gift and tell you Christmas has been hard? Why make it more painful for you? Isn't it funny (not in a ha ha sort of way) that your WAW is trying to communicate with you, while my WAH isn't even trying. That goes to show how differently each situation is.
I know that if my WAH sent me a gift, I would acknowledge it, which is why I'm upset that my WAH hasn't acknowledged my letter.
Whatever you decide, I'm sure that it will be the right decision for you.
BTW, I did get served later that evening. It was around 8:00 pm when I got the "2nd call." I gave him directions to my house, and he was ringing my doorbell at 8:30 pm. I was too upset to post about it . I'm feeling much better today. I haven't read it...it's just sitting there on top of my dresser. I guess I'll let my lawyer read it first. I have 21 days to respond...I'll have to start making some phone calls soon.
All my best, alamogirl
Me - 48 (at time of 1st bomb) H - 43 married - 16 Jul 94 no children 1st bomb - (said he was leaving) - 3 Jun 06 2nd bomb (said he was ready to file) - 10 Nov 06 H filed divorce - 17 Nov 06 Divorce finalized - 20 Jul 07
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. I'm feeling much better today. I haven't read it...it's just sitting there on top of my dresser. I guess I'll let my lawyer read it first. I have 21 days to respond...I'll have to start making some phone calls soon.
