Ah! When we go snooping! Most of the time it hurts and we are not ready for what we find...but on some rare occasions, it may give us an insight into what is going on in their minds! I have come into some info much similar to what was told to you in counselling...that OM is no longer a big part of the picture...it seems we have perhaps become the OM and we are now giving them what they can not! Sweet revenge I say.
