No. And I don't speak with her on the phone either. She wants more contact...but I've resisted up to this point because I didn't want to get dragged into anything and because I felt the counselor should hear anything that we had to say.
I have a personal session scheduled for the first week in Jan. so I'll probably discuss this at that time. Right now I'm not sure what to do and have a feeling that after all the complaining about what I did and didn't do, this is all going to come down to the fact that my WAW went into a kind of MLC and has come out the other side a different person who doesn't share my goals and values any more.
If so, there's really nothing to save. My values are who I am and I can't forsake them for anyone...even the WAW I love so dearly. If it weren't for this issue, I'd be much happier and encouraged by the events that have recently transpired.
