I find that talking a step back from all the drama, and simply being me, helps her to feel good and comfortable. Whenever I backslide and in turn INTRODUCE drama into the relationship...she cringes and runs for her life...as far away from me as possible. If it doesn`t work, DONT do it. Right? Well, detaching from her drama has not really been a choice but a necessity, if I am to continue working on this marriage (alone I might add ).

Have a good one.