"I think if I was skinnier, prettier, then h would want me again, but if I have to change my hair, weight, clothes, then to me that is all fake."

Maybe. That would all depend on how you changing these things made you feel about yourself.

Also, sometimes changing just a small thing, like the way you dress, even just occassionally, creates a change in how they view you.

JJ

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