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[want2believe]

Well WAH stopped by Thursday briefly, and as he was leaving, asked me if anything was wrong. I just told him,
"Do you have any idea what goes through my head everytime you go up North by yourself?". I could tell it bothered him a little, but he said he hadn't talked to OW in almost 2 months. I said "How am I suppose to know that?". H left then. I called H on his cell a few minutes later, stating "I am trying to trust and believe you, but you don't tell me anything, and you don't seem to want to be around me much". He seemed happy I called actually. He said it was true, he hadn't been talking/seeing OW (which I already sort of know). He said he likes being with me, and was going to ask me and the boys out to eat the next night until this came up. I told him that was his decision, although part of me was going - OK how does he expect to take us all out for dinner, when the boys have basketball/baseball practice? I left it at that.

H did me call me late Friday. He wanted to know what I was doing, I said I was just dropping of son's at basketball practice. I think he remembered then. Wanted to know if he should pick up one son - but I said I'd already made arrangements with another parent (who's son's were on the same teams). He eventually did ask me if I wanted to meet him for drinks. Said he definitely be there this time. I said sure. When I got there, H was sitting with some friends who just happened to to go out. We had a few drinks and dinner with them. H came to the house afterwards and stayed the night.

Sat H had to fix truck - had a major transmission leak. I took the boys to their games. H took off later than he wanted to for the banquet. I took the boys out to a magic show, and then bought groceries. WAH didn't call (although I knew he wouldn't).

WAH called the next morning on his way back. He'd gotten a trophy at the banquet. H did drive straight to the house. We cashed out early for the business. Things were going good. H fell asleep on the couch, and I took younger son to basketball practice. When I got home, H was gone. Haven't talked to him since. I figured he could have called or left a note if he'd wanted to. Will see what happens next I guess. H is suppose to come over to spend time with the boys tonight as I have volleyball again. I plan on just waiting to see if he contacts me about the time, etc... Got to run!