I am not trying to say it is easy. My H has been acting "normal" for the most part for over a year now, but don't think I don't have thoughts when he is late coming home and I can't reach him by phone. Really though he doesn't really disappear. He still goes by his old work occaisionally like 2 days ago, and I have to wonder if he hasn't stopped in all this time to see OW. I have to believe not- since he usually isn't gone long enough. I am telling you this to just let you know it does get easier if you let it, but you may still wonder things at times.
