Need advice

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Cinders - thanks for your comments. I really appreciate them.
As for the working out, I've always been the one to workout. Working out now is a total 180 actually for my WAH. He never seemed interested in working out together previously either, now he's the one who suggested it. I thought about not going down, but I did want to workout, and if I waited, I wasn't sure I'd get to it, thus I didn't go down just to be with H.

As for the banquet. I did call his F, and F said he invited himself to the banquet. F is still not sure he's going though. F understands ths situation, and he did tell me that he wouldn't say anything to WAH. What we talked about was just between us. (I've known F for years also, and I know they are confused about WAH's actions. F knows he moved out, but not about the A.) I haven't said anythin gto WAH about not asking me to go to the banquet, but I did talk to F because I was curious if WAH was telling me the truth or not, especially as I know he's lied to me a few times in the past.

My SIL and her kids came to visit on Sat. WAH was around for part of it, but couldn't find the time to leave the business (employee didn't show up, but it was kind of slow) to have lunch with us. WAH wouldn't even commit to having lunch with us even before employee didn't show. SIL thought he seemed and acted normal. SIL did tell me that WAH told her that he was thinking of moving back into the house in March also.

WAH did bring a few clothes over to leave here on Sunday. He didn't unpack them though until he was ready to leave. WAH did come over last night too, as I had volleyball, but he was gone by the time I got home. I expected it as he said he had clothes to wash. He has also told our older S that they'd work on the truck Sun and Mon night, but never did. I really hate it when he does that to S, especially when he gives him no reason for it. I have no clue if he'll be over tonight or not. I expect not, as WAH just called and gave me the business deposit over the phone. Usually he stops by at least and drops of the deposit slip. Oh well, it's probably for the best as I keep thinking he might go see OW this weekend still. I know they haven't seen each other in over a month, but the banquet is just too close to where OW lives for me to feel comfortable about him going there, especially as he's doesn't seem to want to go with me there.

Oh, one more thing. WAH did tell me this WE that he wasn't going to purchase the snowmobile, (mainly for the reasons we'd talked about initially - he has no place to store it, he'd need to get a trailer, etc...). His call totally, but I also realize he could still change his mind.
Also my GF has planned an all girls outing in Feb, which I'm going to go to, come hell or high waters. WAH doesn't know about it yet, and he'll have to take the kids that weekend. Could be interested to leave him wondering for once, especially as I don't know the details to even tell him what we're going to be doing. GF is making all the plans.