Hi !! I've read a bit of your posts...you're doing fine !! The life we have to deal with is not an easy one, for sure !!
I would like to make a few suggestions if I may ...when he came over to work-out, it might have been better if you hadn't gone down to work out with him....he would have maybe wondered where you were and it might have been a bit of a 180�for you ! Also, the fact that he refers to his new place as "home" is just a matter of speech I think, I have learnt that they could get all they wanted to in the world (material wise) but that IF they ever decide they want us back, that the STUFF won't keep them away from us !!! It's just stuff, don't worry !!! He can drop that in a moment !
Oh yes, my last comment - sorry, hope you don't mind ...is that about the banquet...DO NOT worry yourself IF and WHO he's going with !!! I know how hard that is - really I do !!! I've had to swallow lots of these occasions ...DO NOT call this F, to ask !!! It will look as if you're trying to control the situation, and he WILL find out, and he WILL NOT like it, I assure you....so just try and let go, (detach as you yourself said !) I don't yet know if detachment works....I have only just started really detaching, but heck ...we know all the other stuff didn't work, so why not give it a try !!??!!
Keep going !! GAL !! You will manage !! You will be fine, and your H needs to follow his own (wacko) path !!! Take care, lot of love, Cinders xx
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
