I left work late due to the car wash fiasco this morning. Called home to tell boys I was running late - WAH answered. Said he was working with S on truck. I asked about supper as I was picking up something, he said he didn't want anything. When I got home 30 min later- WAH was already gone. Only spent about 30 mins w/S on truck.
Supposedly as this is my volleyball night, this is WAH night to spend with the B's. I'm assuming he's not coming back though, mainly based on his actions last night when I told him what time I played. I finally called WAH a few minutes ago to confirm he wasn't coming back so I knew to get the boys in bed before I left. WAH said he didn't see an issue with it as oldest S is 13, and both stay home after school by themselves. I just told him I would have appreciated if he could have told me he wasn't going to be here tonight instead of just leaving and not saying anything. I think he got the message, but you never know if they really hear you or not. Especially as this isn't the first time he's done this.
Lastly - you know he always seems to be telling me lately what he's doing, yet he rarely if ever asks what I have going on, or what my day was like. I ask him. I know it's part of the cycle, but it gets trying some day's when I'd just like to make him aware of what I have going on. I guess I hate the fact that he seems to think I do nothing, or seems to think I can cover what he can't get to. This is something I know I need to work on also - I agree to do more than I have time for sometimes, especially where H is concerned. Just needed to vent. Got to run to my VB game now.
Need2Believe
Me: 45 H: 49 Married - 21 years SD from H 1st M - 30 S - 14 S - 11 Asked for D - 8/14/06 Found out about OW - 8/30/06 Moved out 10/14/06 Moved back in 4/1/07
