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Just a quick update. I'm hoping tomorrow to have the time to go read inpain's thread.

Didn't talk or see WAH at all yesterday. Today he went out of town. Went to check on the business at 3:30, and WAH was there. Felt good to know he didn't go see OW. At one point I was able to quickly check his cell phone - no calls to or from OW.

A couple of minor downsides. WAH said he was thinking about purchasing a used snowmobile, something he's always wanted. I asked a little about it. As WAH was talking about it, he said he didn't know where he'd store it though, and he'd have to get a trailer for it also. I didn't say anything. Hey, it's his money, and I definitely wasn't offering to store it here at the house. He moved out, so he can live with the consequences of figuring out what to do with his purchases he has no place to store, nor do we really need. There no place really to store it at the house either, and he knows it.

WAH also seems to be considering racing again this year. This is something he said he was going to quite. Was a little dis-heartening, but not much. I know how much he loves to race. He did say he didn't have any place to work on the car though, and he wasn't going to put our son's truck outside for him to work on the race car, so that part was good to hear. At least he wasn't just thinking about himself.

WAH then asked what was going on tonight. I told him our oldest wanted to watch the Seahawks/Cowboy football game tonight. He then mumbled something about working out tonight. I told him he was welcome to come by if he wanted. I left shortly afterwards, giving him a kiss which he returned, and said I'll see you later if you come over, others just sometime later, and left with a smile.

WAH hasn't come over yet. He still might, but if he doesn't, I've got plenty to do to keep me busy. It just feels good to know that OW is pretty much out of the picture now. I know it could change in the future, but for now it just makes me feel great. It's much easier to give him is space and time to work out whatever he needs to knowing this. I know in my heart he'll be back, I just don't know when, and to tell the truth at this point, I'm not sure I want him coming back until he's really ready.