If WAH tells me he like it when I show him I want him, yet he rarely initiates anything to indicate he wants to be with me, should I keep up trying to show him I want to be with him, when he's around or not.
It's hard to keep up sometimes, and I keep wondering if he really likes me doing this or not. He rarely rejects the contact, but there probably wouldn't be any if I didn't initiate it. The only thing he does sometimes seem to initiate is the "Bye" kiss. He just seems more distant/distracted lately, yet he seems to be doing more and talking about doing more things around the house even though he doesn't live her anymore.
WAH also took today off, to take some things up to an auction. He'll only be an hour away for OW, although he didn't seem to be rushing to leave today, but if OW is working during the day, they might be meeting later tonight. It might also explain his distant attitude to me since Xmas, as I know he re-contacted OW, even though what I saw via e-mail was platonic. I'm sure he's fanatizing some about being with OW again though. It's par for the course of a MLC from what I've read. I'm not sure if he'll be seeing OW or not. Guess it'll depend on when he gets home tonight, or if he stops by to workout (something I told him I'd be doing tonight, and which he has said he wants us to together).
Need2Believe
Me: 45 H: 49 Married - 21 years SD from H 1st M - 30 S - 14 S - 11 Asked for D - 8/14/06 Found out about OW - 8/30/06 Moved out 10/14/06 Moved back in 4/1/07
