Need advice

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Husband just called after spending night in WI, more than likely with OW since that is where she lives.

Anyway - he's concerned because no one's at the business - it was extremely slow because of the cold, so I told the employee she could leave unless it warms up. I tell him I can come back and watch as it's suppose to be his weekend off. He say's he will as he's bored. He just wanted to to relax and watch TV, and not worry about doing anything.

1.) OK - I guess he forgot he told our oldest sone he'd be over this afternoon to help him work on the truck.
2.) What the hell does he do then when he's at his place alone each night.
3.) I could tell he didn't want to say too much about relaxing, as he hesitated while talking, like he didn't want to mention what he did yesterday. I only proves to me he was with OW, and doesn't want me to know. (He doesn't know I can track him when he goes up there.)

God he can piss me off. Does he really think I'm that much of an idiot that I can't figure out what he's doing. He has nothing else to do except relax and watch TV when he's at his place. He can go up and spend the night with OW, yet he can't spend more than a couple of hours her with us, yet he still acts like he lives here when he is here.

Anyway, I just told him it didn't matter, it was his choice on what he does, and I hung up. I really don't want to see him today, but I know I will later today because of the business reponsibilies. I'm just not sure I can put on a happy face and act like nothing matters.

Well, got to go and get back to my kids and getting some things done around the house that he's ignored for years.