Quoting Zebra: Where it seems everyone wants to jump on the "cut all contact" bandwagon, in some cases, it is just not practical at best, and at most just demanding and controlling at worst.
I agree with you! In part! In my situation, an initial "cutting all contact" was necessary, but now, I dont even try to limit my contacts, I call as often as I please (like I used to) and she seems responsive enough...or at least she has not sked me to stop!
Had a good chat with her boss today at the funeral, and noticed my wife turning her head around 180o to see why we were both laughing so hard! So I am also inserting myself into her world: familly, friends, work! But this is not always possible...especialy at first!
In my situation, an initial "cutting all contact" was necessary, but now, I dont even try to limit my contacts, I call as often as I please (like I used to) and she seems responsive enough...or at least she has not sked me to stop!
So I am also inserting myself into her world: familly, friends, work! But this is not always possible...especialy at first!
