Oh, well I should probably follow this up with a positive note...

One day last week, W and 8 year old D were talking... D asked about step-parents (I think in some context of W's step-father). W promised D she would never have to have a step father... or at least not unless I died.

Then W looked over at me and grinned... Good news is she sounds like she's not going to divorce me. Bad news is.... Where did that big bottle of rat poison go????

Just kidding about the rat poison.... Hey, maybe OM has it!!!

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