SO Z, does backing off help bring your wife closer to you? I'm not sure what to do. Adrian has been distancing some and withdrawing. Supposedly he is inbetween the withdrawal and Ecceptance stage of MLC. It hurts to touchand not be touched back in love. I'm not talking about sex-we are ok with that-its the other intimacy that he lacks. I want it back-I miss it so. The little things like him rubbing my back, or putting his arm around me. I'm afraid to say anything to him about it for fear he will think that what he IS doing (holding my hand, telling me he loves me)is not ggod enough and will quit out of frustration so I have kept quiet. Any ideas on how to get this man more intimant OUT of the bedroom? Rachael
