Quoting Zebra: The point is that, Yes, I agree, contact with OM being eliminated would be good.
What this requires on my part is almost unbearable patience and detachment from the drama. I am getting better at it, and I'm feeling confident.
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I tend to agree with you here Zebra. As she feels closer an closer to you, as your relationship mends and changes, I believe she will eventually cut most, if not all contact with OM. The need for such contact will disapear.
Plus, you were speaking of trust, and this is where you must shine . If she sees and feels that you trust her in regards to OM, then she will feel even less enclined to have contact with this other person!
Patience IS key, and I sometimes misplace that key somewhere...probably in my trousers or something!
. If she sees and feels that you trust her in regards to OM, then she will feel even less enclined to have contact with this other person!
