Quoting Zebra:
Sometimes, the only way to truly measure the progress it to compare against the way things were many months ago. For example, a year ago this week, I received the "lawyer letter". It's a miserably, painfully slow process. Is this the way it has been for others in "recovery"?
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I have no clue if I am in "recovery" as you say...but believe I am heading that way and YES, it does seem to be "a miserably, painfully slow process". I get the cringe all the time, but what puzzles me is that sometimes she does it, and others she seems to welcome the touch, the hug, the kiss. About a week ago, I got a giggle after a small kiss. A giggle, can you image that. Had you asked a couple of months ago if that was possible, I dont think i could have said yes!

We have many things in common, as Treesa told me we did, and that is why I am now here on this forum! I'll post more when I catch up on the rest of your posts...and when I have time...must get ready for supper now . Unfortunately, Treesa is making me buy a new shirt and new cologne every time I see my wife...so by the time we get back together, I'll be financially ruined .

Steph