Next, that's interesting. I forgot which DVD set of Christian Carter I'm listening to but I just bought one. I, too, have found some of his comments very interesting, some of his how men think.
I'm not looking for anyone to catch but I guess I know I want to get an idea how XH might actually see the outcome of his one-sided decision. I even stated in court I did not agree the marriage was irreconciliable but, because of the way our state laws are written, I had no choice but to acquiesce to his unilateral decision it was such.
Oh well, it's funny I'm trying to do some of the very things he has talked about. My positive orientation before I go out the door, etc. If you get a chance to read The Mastery of Love, I think it pretty much says the same types of things but it doesn't go into the way that can affect the other gender.
Good luck to you. I love to see success stories -- divorce busted -- but I haven't seen a lot of them here.