Hi Michelle, thank you. Normally I don't share too much of personal situations, but this just seemed so.. blatant? when you have a spouse, you want to feel like they 'have your back'? when you get in a jam. I certainly didn't feel that way. I felt like I was an annoyance at best.

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I'm exhausted from trying to be strong and act as if it's no big deal.




Amen - This really is something I deal with, you put things into words so well. I think I do a good job of running a house, taking care of three wild boys, and when it comes to my needing something, the ball gets dropped.
The comment about 'cry baby' about made me cry! Talk about harsh and untrue. None of that resembled anything in this situation.
I constantly put aside my own pain and needs for the benefit of others. I'm still feeling pretty down today about the whole situation, even though we did talk about it some this morning.
How do I go about knowing what my underlying beliefs about the situation are? thanks!