It may be a false dichotomy with healthy people. But we have our problems that we wrestle with. If we were so healthy, we wouldn’t be in this mess to begin with and everyone would be happy. I’m not asking for anyone’s approval about this, just saying what is going on.
What is curious to me is that everyone focuses on this issue. In the scheme of things, I think it is a minor part, or at least not the biggest part. What is also curious to me is how much my sitch rubs everyone the wrong way. Advice as been fairly consistent that you do not need to take actions that please others, only do what you think is right.
I believe I am doing the right thing. That is why I don’t always feed into the beating some like to give me. I will listen to opinions and I have made changes where I thought necessary. But taking tough action do not seem to get as much support here as talking about it. Maybe that is why everyone stays stuck? What good is talking the talk if you won’t walk the walk?
