Very weell asled Gel. I am interested in hearing the answer to this.
Cobra....also I am curious. Okay tell me why you think your wife would have any trust in you? tell me about the good things you do to try to earn her trust. Because I read how you threatened divorce, threatened you could buy her out of the house using your parents help. You guys got the kid's involved and the kid's said they wanted to live in the house. You used an awful lot of threats. Why would she trust you? She may still be waiting to see the papers you stated you WERE filing.
I guess the important thing here is this also....don't ever ever threaten anything in a relationship unless you back it up 100%. You lose all face value if you don't. I learned this lesson myself the hard way. If you told her you were going to file then you need to. because the very next time you say it she will be like yeah right heard this one before.